难得悠闲...

It's been a long long time I have some time to blog during office hours...

Most of the time I just work all the way from step in to lunch then after lunch to knock off...

I do still have unfinished work! but boss is sorta not around and the work not SO urgent la...

Gimme a break can? :þ

Hen's Nite at MOS (18 Nov 2006)

FUN! FUN! FUN!

those 3 words were most apt in describing how the nite turned out.. ;)

started wif a dinner, cooked by ame's sis's HTB..was very nice. he's a good cook. and he done up a v interesting menu for us. if i get pics, will post them here.

Appetizer: oyster chawanmushi with sea urchin
main course 1: salmon with orange sauce & roast duck with apple sauce
main course 2: roast beef with pumpkin and blue cheese sauce
dessert: ice cream with fresh strawberries

they were good! very professionally cooked, and arranged...etc..

the sis and HTB are considering to go into home-catering for small parties, anyone int, let me know. i'll give u their contacts! home parties wld be very special, if u get them to cook at ur place and serve up the dishes. no hassle to cook ur own food! they do decors, table arrangements as well...

dinner went with red wine and champagne was next.. cw brought drinking games which were rather funny...thr's one which is so easy and funny...and out to make everyone drink and drink... we brought the game to MOS! hehe..

helped the BTB put some colours on her face and we were off to MOS. once there..had a few drinks...and began our sabo-ing...

first...getting her to wear some sexy stocking at MOS...at our table.. thankfully for her, our table was more secluded...so no one cld really see wat we were up to... me and cw helped by covering up with cushions...haha... BTB was game enough..she wore it without much effort... then we had a pack of goodies for her... numberous condoms for pre-wedding education! hehe..was great fun...and we had drinks in between...keep guessing condoms type like not v fun :þ

ame had frens from macau who joined us too...for the drinking game..hehe.. thr was 1 particularly hilarious lady...whom we tot deserved a free gift from us..so we asked her to dip into the goodies bag and gave her one of the condom as a sourvenir.. she hid it in her bra...!!!!! haha... after tt, when we 'forced' her to have more drinks...she said she needed to remain sober to use the 'free gift' that we gave her! so funny!

BTB was so surprisingly sporting and game for anything...hehe...we din make her do very awful stuff anyway...

so in all, it was a fun nite of drinking and merry making... :)

Here's wishing the BTB a blissful marriage... congrats!

Finding faults...

this blog is about finding faults in people...isn't it ez for us to find faults if we really want to... we are but human beings.. ya?

If we really wanna have issues with someone, some colleague, family members, partner..we prob can manage a dozen in no time...

a frend asked me if thr's anything i really dislike abt my bf... i said it's the way he always procastinate...always tu till last minute to do something... he said, is that all? After that, he was still determined for me to find faults... he say must hv...otherwise maybe me and him din have much issues to start wif...not much differences... *he's upset abt some rs probs himself, so i dun blame him...*

But this made me ponder deeper...must thr definitely be faults in ur partners? must i go finding faults with him? I told him...i really dun hv any issues with bf...

then i told my friend... i definitely can find lots of faults if i am concentrating on finding them... but i am not... i am concentrating on making the rs work, making the effort to keep the rs healthy and happy... spreading the gd vibes...i believe being happy will help keep the rs going...

love is about acceptance...and acceptance brings about deeper love as well...i am starting to believe in that.

being accepted is a very nice thing...u know u won't be judged..and will be supported..and trusted in ur abilities...and as time passes...without u realising it...u r oredi a changed person...

i tink tt's the wonder of love and acceptance...

and i really can say tt except the procastination...my bf is perfect in my eyes...i admire him! ;)

Touched by Angels! ;)

Been very bz at work...with wat, sometimes i dun even know...time juz passes and I dun seem to do much but still working...and non-stop...

Haven't had time to blog much and also nothing much to say...

BUT today...something very special happened...FELT SO LOVED...felt like I was touched by angels...sometimes I think people get so bz, they seldom show that they understand or care...BUT deep inside...they do! =)

My usual gang of colleagues went to lunch with 2 colleagues from another department, sort of to network and improve working relationship...getting to know more people within the organisation helps to smoothen work processes ;)

Was chatting till someone brought up the topic of being busy at work... One of the colleague from the other department asked if I was busy...WELL...as mentioned in previous blogs...I am widely perceived to be the most free person in my department..in fact the common perception is that my whole school is the most free people in the organisation... SO as expected, he said..."oh you should be quite free right, no programmes yet..."

BEFORE i could open my mouth to defend myself...my angels appeared!!! hehe... 2 of my colleagues started to defend me... stating that I could easily be the most busy person in the whole department cuz I am essentially a one-woman show for my school and somehow my school end up doing many of the work (That should be done by other departments) ourselves - i think cuz my school damn ON..and also boss likes to do things differently sometimes...... Although my skool is small...work can be very high volume. a forgetful boss does not help matters... They really said what I wanted to say to defend myself but had grown tired of... they really understand and care...!! I was so pleasantly surprised by their kind act...really...I almost teared... BUT of cuz i din...juz felt very very grateful for colleagues who know how hard I am working and will defend me without doubt when I am 'attacked'...

THANK YOU, girls!!! Although care and concern are not shown all the time..I believe that it's all deep inside everyone of us... I thank whoever is up there for such wonderful colleagues/friends...Things like this are small, I think they might not even think much of what they did...but it meant so much to me!!! :)

You girls are the reason why I am still working here... =)

LOVE YA ALL!!!

New Act in town...***Splitting Head*** :(

Having a splitting head...but still can't resist trying out some personality test... *fr nic's blog*

You Are A Blueberry Martini

You are a eclectic drink - liking to change drinks and venues often. You are usually the first of your friends to find a cool new dive bar or cocktail. You should never: Drink mystery drinks strangers hand you. Unless you want to wind up in foreign country. Your ideal party: Is mobile, hopping from party to party. Your drinking soulmates: Those with an Orange Martini personality. Your drinking rivals: Those with a Chocolate Martini personality.

What Flavor Martini Are You?

OPPPSSS!!!! does tt mean nic and I are rivals? :þ BULLSHIT... we r the best of AAs ok!!

And another one which i came across when at the site...

You Have a Melancholic Temperament

Introspective and reflective, you think about everything and anything. You are a soft-hearted daydreamer. You long for your ideal life. You love silence and solitude. Everyday life is usually too chaotic for you. Given enough time alone, it's easy for you to find inner peace. You tend to be spiritual, having found your own meaning of life. Wise and patient, you can help people through difficult times. At your worst, you brood and sulk. Your negative thoughts can trap you. You are reserved and withdrawn. This makes it hard to connect to others. You tend to over think small things, making decisions difficult.

What Temperment Are You?

Last one....I promise.... :þ

HOW TRUE!!!

You Are More Mild Than Wild

You're confident, and you really aren't concerned with how "hot" you are. Other people's ideas of what's sexy don't concern you. And this is exactly what makes you attractive.

Are You Hot?

Alrite....now to rest my lovely 'hot' head...which is splitting....

gd nite.. :)

No clothes to sleep in....?!?!?!?

It's strange that the dolls have no sleepwear.... So they sleep in their minishorts and skirts....? *raised eyebrows*

this is the closest the dolls can get...to getting ready for slp...hehe...

bz weekend...

Yes...left alone in Singapore by bf cuz he's on a biz trip to Macau...over the weekend... how can companies do this? Weekends are precious time, don't you think? :S

Anywayz...I was kept very busy by friends so wasn't that bad... Although I do miss him also la...esp before heading to bed, normally would chat wif him on the phone one ma... but cuz long distance expensive and oso cuz I was out quite late past 2 nites, so din chat...

Fri nite, as usual, Velvet nite...

Sat, went out wif classmate from jap class...he was in Cambodia when I was in Krabi...so he brought his pics for my viewing. interesting pics...he's quite into photography...so using my amateur eyes...i did comment on which ones i tot look interesting...there were 2 or 3 which i tink look nice... but judging from the pics, I dun tink it's a place that I will enjoy travelling to... alittle too undeveloped for me... undeveloped beaches, like Krabi, are ok cuz beach dun hv to be developed to look nice...and make ppl feel comfortable... but from his experience and the pics...I think it was a tough journey..totally not prepared for it...!!! oh well...I'm not going there anyway.. hehe... after that, headed to Q bar (the place we frequent most, even though it's the most unlikely place...we head thr cuz definitely able to get a seat and will be able to have a conversation...haha) unhappening place la...even though the nite we went, thr was supposed to be some guest DJ and the founder of Q bar was thr oso... I think Q bar orginated from Bangkok? Or at least i know thr's another one in BKK la...

Sun, went temple wif family...after tt, headed to get beads for some projects which I am supposed to get started on... a colleague wants 2 pairs...but unfortunately, unable to find some parts, so tt might be delayed... And I was also tasked to help my fren make the waist corsages for her wedding... and since i make very pretty and unique bracelets... we decided to make it bracelets this time... special huh! I think that is a new biz opportunity too.. ;) I welcome orders... hehe...

SO whole wkend was gone...now at 10pm...I am sitting here, typing my blog...and waiting for my bf to come online or send me some email... Cuz he haven't replied to me since yesterday... so sad... :'(




no mood at all...

In the mood for Christmas...

My doll for the day... Maybe i am in the mood for X'mas oredi...

This candydoll thingy is really fun! hehe..

Check out my new doll... -->

So fun! I can choose the background, the clothes, the hair, the face, the eyes etc... So much fun! esp the part where i choose shoes... SO many choices...

TRY IT! Totally Addictive! ;)

Un-usual Self...

Can't help but feel very fat!

Been shoving everything in sight into mouth... What's wrong with me? eat more, eat very often and in large quantities... sigh... stress-related? PMS-related? or???

i bet I am going to gain weight very soon...

NEED EXERCISE but health is not good... keep having symptoms but not really sick... that's the worse things can get...

what can i do?