love is about losing the control...?

just had a tot...

love is about losing control... as in...letting the person have the choice of whether he/she wants to love you back...letting the person choose if he/she wants to do nice things to you or treausre you...

love is not about getting someone whom u r sure will not leave u...so that u can take the person for granted...

perhaps that's why 2 ppl who are in a loving relationship will continue to make effort for the relationship to work and oso be nice and kind to each other...because everyone has the free choice to love or leave...?

had a discussion wif Ken -
love is quite a scary thing...where u r afriad of losing the person, tt the person will not love you back or do nice things back to you when you are nice and loving... nevertheless you gave without expecting anything in return...

sounds strange?