reply to nameless..

was typing in the comments window but found it got too long..so decided to make it a post..

dear nameless..

i disagree wif the 1st stmt..

those who only think, misses the pain of life but oso the happiness..only a spectator, never a participant...

those who only feel, fails to make lasting happiness possible...

so maybe it really doesn't hv to be either 1 only...combine the 2 and tt's life for u...most ppl do not use only thinking or feeling..

u love and u feel but to make it last longer...u tink of ways to handle the imperfections and limitations...relationship is definitely an art...and a science...

so the only difference sometimes is whether this is a person u really love and wants to make an effort wif...which is so difficult to find... my mind goes back to wat adrian tan says... "To love someone" really...

life really is too short to be miserable... letting go takes time and takes 2...when it requires paperwork... :( when it's all over, it's time for healing...

i hv generally been an optimistic person...otherwise i wldn't hv been able to survive till now..and yes i learn and i grow...and i will not give up on myself..

thanks nameless! i dunno u but thanks..