Random-ness ~ from Bubbles's blog...

comments i promised her about her entry ~ http://bubblybubbs.blogspot.com/2008/09/random.html

some parts of it i agree...some parts not...


here goes...love is idealistic yes. but love is also a lot of hard work...i tink i not in good position to say this now...cuz not been practicing. Wif higher awareness, i can.

i wrote the above a few days ago...now i forgot wat I wanted to write...let me try again...

idealistically, love shld be wat u tink...i like u, u like me, let's get together... perfect! But then...wif the increased complexity of human relations, such things do still happen..but seldom stay in place... as wif everything else tt is evolving...human relations too...

life buoy...guilty of it..tt's y i always say women are ke lian... actually men too... it's how stress is affecting everyone... i feel la. not trying to blame it on smtg. ppl juz need support... some more, some less... some suppress feelings when not given support...some find other outlets... some get addicted to vices... it's coping mechanism... good or bad, depends on individual... some juz get addicted to getting into relations...getting the high.. getting the support and undivided attention... i agree the act is selfish...

i still believe platonic frenship exists leh.... is it really cuz 1 side is waiting silently? i tink platonic frenship can exist la...juz maybe not very very close...otherwise it wld be quite true tt thr r some sort of feelings involved. actually dun u tink...even between girl frens, feelings hv to be strong for 2 girls to be very good frens? sometimes even can be possessive towards frens rite? if such feelings exist between 1 guy and 1 girl, even tho they r frens... it's wrong? - food for thought..

next point...girl calling up a guy who is attached, to share tots and feelings...hmm...i dunno leh..to me, i tink most guys, if attached, wldn't be SO free to entertain other girls... tt is if he is fully committed to the rs he is in... cuz he got to have time for the gf since maintaining a rs is hard work (but pleasurable hard work) and oso find time for himself...add on time for work etc...whr got time? sms maybe can la. but phonecall? thr shld be smtg wrong lor...once or twice ok...too many...not so gd... if i am the gf, i might be able to tolerate...but i tink the guy shld zi dong lor... hahahaha....

last point.... dun suppress feelings girl... show them! i tink u can be quite explosive if u do.. but wat the heck... u know...? strangle tt idiot soon...bang his head agst the wall many times till he can tink properly... get the drift?

see my entry abt the 10 tot-provoking stmts... let me copy it here again...?
付出真心，才会得到真心，却也可能伤得彻底。
保持距离，就能保护自己，却也注定永远寂寞。

how would you wanna live your life? really such great need to protect urself? can i offer my shoulder if u ever need 1? although i might not be the 1st fren u will tink of for that.... i am offering mine... ya?

have been telling u many times... go for it? wat can u lose? if u dun go for it? wat can u lose again? do a SWOT analysis if u must...haha... i wld say....go wif ur gut feel.. dun wan regrets in life...

read the speech by Adrian Tan...dun it inspire u? To love someone... *love and give all u can... do not expect anything in return... even if the person dun love u back, it's not a tragedy*

i guess i said my piece...