wat else but love?

fall in love...not seek to be loved. - key of his speech..

but how often are people doing that now? even if someone claims to be doing that, i am skeptical if anyone can do it entirely...

i agree with the anti-love...abt looking for flaws...abt finding reasons not to like someone... but total acceptance seems so scary...

to fall in love the way that was described...seemed so scary..totally vulnerable and at the mercy of another being...human are fickle...and can exploit...when they r at a superior position...

thr is oso this part abt easier to be loved..cuz can be done by changing looks, personality etc... which i agree... i tink i tend to.. :S although there is abig part of me that doesn't change... i have to agree that there are parts which i do change...and sometimes i do not like the changes...thus the rs fails...cuz unhappiness sets in.

but the good things mentioned in the entry are also very true...that love does many splendid things as well...

it's the falling part that is hard... you have to build the trust to be able to fall...remember those things u do at team building/leadership programmes. it's entrusting ur life to another person... this is the hard part... in this world...we prefer to be in control...

then he oso talked about real love taking time to grow... i guess it does and won't be an overnight process... juz that sometimes some feelings dun take roots and fade away... those probably are not meant to be..

anyway i enjoyed his post very very much! was very thought-provoking pc of work...dun tink it will go away anytime soon..and i probably will be talking about it to people ard me.. haha...

last note..my fav quote from his entry...

"And so I want to start by giving one piece of advice to the men: when you’ve already won her heart, you don’t need to win every argument."

Men - if you listen to him, life would be much btr u know?