this thing about life...

In the office but not clearing work yet... taking a short break.. will have to make sense of some mind-boggling things soon..

anyway i went to read the full entry fr mr wang says so's blog. What the contributor, Adrian Tan said, was very interesting.

You should visit the link to read it fully.

pt 1 - Don't work!

find something you like to do and make it work.. it's easier to say than to do. sad. most people lack the guts. me included. perhaps after this job, i will. i mean, i dun hate this job entirely, else i wld hv left. but work has become more and more strained...

i like the part that they say do wat u enjoy cuz u are probably good at it. it's true, isn't it? but wat am i gd at? haha...

pt 2 - aviod telling thr truth...

something i wld never be able to do. i am TOO honest... but i tink what he meant was that u shld be tactfully in how the truth is to be presented. That, i think i have been learning and hopefully practising well. What he says about it being the most difficult with people u r close to, cannot be MORE true!! i find it hard too...i can be honest but sometimes can't handle the truth when it is presented to me. haha...irony..

pt 3 - be hated.

well..something i can't handle too. dun like the feeling tt someone out thr hates me... not sure if anyone oredi does. i try to be nice. but firm. if someone hates me...i guess got to accept. i can be hated for doing the right thing..but not for being misunderstood... ya. tt's prob it. cuz someone told me he hate me recently. but i can't accept it. well..not up to me. life's like that. it's really whether you want to live ur life anot...and not just how others want u to live ur life....

pt 4 - love someone

this is the whole long para that i quoted below, 1 post away...by rite i shld hv the most to write abt this...therefore...i should hv an entire entry dedicated to it... haha...