most people wld say it's easier to be the dumper...

i nvr agreed with that...unless u never felt for the person at all...u wld feel the loss whether or not the decision was made by you...

and a thought occured to me just now...

it might actually be easier for the dumpee really...cuz at least u get someone to blame for making the decision...

whereas the dumper...gets to blame only himself/herself...