staying calm...

i tink sun tzu's art of war prob has such things...

enemy dun move, i dun move...

i tink i'm feeling btr now...needed to vent and cool off to be able to tink properly...

wat i heard is from a 3rd party...whose words i discount abit sometimes...not cuz i dun trust her but more cuz is more emotional person thus words r more emotionally charged...

the incident got to me mostly cuz i had a bad week! was so damn busy...then hear such things, cfm will burst! maybe if it was someone else, oredi confronted the person directly... haha...

i am really a much more calm person than that... someone used the word 'zen' on me... i tink i can be that way... and for me, as long as my conscience is clear i tink i can survive... so in a way, i am gg to ignore watever is being said for the moment...but will monitor the situation...

1 thing abt me...i tink my tolerance level is high...haha...i will most prob be the last one standing in most tough situations...esp if it's more logical, rational stuff..

thanks to all those who listened to me over the past 1 day plus!!! i'm seldom so affected... it's cuz i felt i tried hard to accommodate the person, taking care not to overload her, even taking some of those load on myself sometimes so as to make her feel btr about her situation...altho i dun expect her to be grateful..i prob din expect ungratefulness... so was a shock... but of cuz everyone's built differently...and went thru different experiences... i can handle that... no problem... time will tell the truth in all situations... juz let time do its work ;)