re-reading the 1st quote fr 'runaway bride' and wondering...

the bride cld hv gotten married with the groom knowing her but her not knowing herself rite? She cld discover along the way, during the marriage... wat matters is the awareness tt she doesn't know herself...

they cld hv saved the time spent away from each other.... then again...after they got married, she might discover herself but not want to marry this man OR she might get lazy and not discover... so...i guess putting everything straight before the marriage is still the best idea so far...

Marriage is such a heavy commitment...

did i share about this yet? I found this website where i tink couples shld go to before committing themselves in marriage... it's a gd start to really get to know each other thoroughly for a serius business like marriage...
http://marriage.about.com/od/proposingbeingengaged/Before_You_Get_Married.htm

Another interesting read for newlyweds - http://marriage.about.com/cs/newlyweds/a/settingstage.htm

many interesting reads here at about.com, should drop by to read, for interest or otherwise... =)