Another advisor...

Somehow speaking to her today...made me feel better and more optimistic...

maybe she oso spoke to my heart...although i dun tink i am THAT similar to her... i tink she's more independant than me... she sounds like.. otherwise she has been conditioned to be independent like I am...

But she has been conditioned for a longer time maybe..cuz she is more determined to be independent...haha...whereas i still believe that i wan to be taken care of...cuz i told her it's the job tt made me who i am now...strong and everything... but i really still wan someone to take care of me when i am home... possible anot ar?

Another thing...she told me to change my focus...hv a kid...then i wldn't be so bothered anymore by all those things about the rs...but i told her no...it wld be ignoring the existing problems...and bringing another life to suffer in this world...

for her...she feels tt nobody is perfect and if tt person is like tt, really no choice... but to change ur own focus... focus on work, focus on kids..juz put less emphasis on the rs....then won't feel as bad...

she feels tt once i gave up on this. it would repeat for future rs...which i told her maybe not...cuz i dun really wan to anymore...like SO tiring.. being alone is easier...focus can be on work.. juz date ba... then she say dating oso has its own problems...

Human lor.. ma fan...wan and dun wan at the same time... sometimes dun even know wat u wan or dun wan... then sometimes wan oredi...after that dun wan again....

and 1 more thing...she said guys r fan jian... when u dun care so much about them...they come back begging u.... wonder how true tt is....maybe juz apply to SOME guys...