To passerby...

I am seriously wondering if you are someone i know...trying to make me tink more deeply into my situation or really juz passing by and having a similar situation...

Anyway...as i said...where thr is still love, thr wld be a way...cuz no matter wat happens, u still have the motivation!!! cuz i believe tt.. if u still feel for the person...ur motivation would be that...and u wld still try and try...till of cuz the motivation runs out... this is wat i tink...maybe i am very idealistic...

are u married or not married? if u r not, u might want to consider going for a marriage prep course. get a good one. dun go for the centre for fathering though, i wasn't impressed. =(

anyway all the courses conducted would cover conflict management. note that it's not resolution. cuz wat they say is u can only manage the conflict and not resolve them. not possible to.

u might be able to get some insights from the courses...if u would like to settle down wif this person.

since u say u know whr it went wrong...perhaps u can use the motivation to work at it?

hurt and pain...today someone told me..tt human is bound to disappoint. maybe wif this, it is easier to live life? haha...i dunno...it sounds so pessimistic..not my style...

i still wan to believe tt thr is a possiblity of having a good rs...with conflicts and all but still love each other and will work at being together, despite having conflicts... the difference is the love rite?

good luck!