About Giving...

response to passerby...i am trying not to be defensive here...although ur comment actually got me abit upset...like who are you to judge me?

more objectively...
i can't say i gave everything i have to the rs...

who can? most do not give everything they have, unless they wan to be left with nothing...and human tend to protect themselves rite? it's juz human nature we toking about here...and another natural thing is tt u tend to protect urself more and more when u dun get wat u wan from something...

but what i can say is i gave wat i can to the rs...more earlier on in the rs and lesser when i wasn't getting wat i need from the rs...

i wld say more of the problem is about communication...than about who giving more or less cuz those problems...probably can be aligned with more communication...

it's just that the problems has persist so long now...it takes SO MUCH more effort to rectify...which both parties are not willing to make the effort now...

oh yes...the other thing... to me i am not expecting alot...but i know expression of love is so different for everyone so wat i tink is little might be alot to another person...i understand tt.. so can it be tt the 2 ppl r juz not tt compatible then? if being together is so difficult and needs SO much more effort?

not saying rs shld be ez...but SO much effort? even if tt's the case...i tink the key shld be love and commitment...which has been lacking...