Ability to be vulnerable

I thought I understood something a few days ago..

To be in a relationship wif a person is..

to be able to be totally yourself, totally vulnerable, totally showing any feelings, any emotions

while having the assurance that you will not be hurt, that you will be supported, that you will not be despised, that you will be accepted for all the weaknesses that you possess...

Am I being idealistic again?

Another thought juz came to me...some saying most of us would have heard...

Choose not the person you can live with but the person you cannot live without...

Perhaps that is where happiness is? Where everyone would be making the effort to try hard for each other...where there is imbalance, there's bound to be one party trying harder than the other...

But I seemed to tink that most ppl are only looking for ppl they can live with and not without...

There was smtg in the papers today tt toked abt instant gratification..tt modern ppl are always looking for instant happiness...which is true rite...

no suffering...