Ghost-busting Weekend!

Caught a good movie TWICE tis weekend...the same one...

i know that sounds strange...but i actually enjoyed both times. cuz it's really such a good movie!

ghost of girlfriends past...other than providing entertainment and making you laugh lots... this show offers a great deal..

1) good looking people are always good to watch -
Matthew McConaughey: good looks (although someone pointed out the laugh lines at the eye area) and great body (which i only noticed the 2nd time round!) haha...
Jennifer Garner: (usually i like the way people smile) strangely for this lady, i actually din like the way she smile, i mean she looks stunning when she does... but i prefer the way she looked when she doesn't. the bits where she look serious, like the part where she was sitting on the swing near the end of the show - she looked so real...i like that.

2) parts about family love/ kinship love.
believing in the best of your family no matter how they behave. that part about the bro's sharing made me tear the first time. not the 2nd but still touches my heart. u can choose ur frens, spouse but family - they are the ones who will stick by you, LIKE IT OR NOT, from the time you are borned till the last day of ur life... but believing in spite of everything - this is SO difficult...at least for me..

3) parts about love (yes..this is after all a romantic comedy)
- the one who care less will have more control, but the one who cares more gets the happiness... i tink i felt that before... and i related this to an earlier entry - speech by Adrian Lim, to love is to give without expecting anything in return because in loving another, u oredi got the reward. And i oso wrote b4 that to love is to lose control, u r unable to hv full ctrl of a rs and a person because tt's just not the way things r.
- when u love a person, it's possible to get hurt, so deeply you dun wanna ever feel the pain again, never again. but if u get so scared of this pain that u r afraid to even try to love anymore, instead u run away...u r going to live with regrets. cuz u will never be wif the person u really truly wanna be wif. instead, u choose someone u won't feel that pain wif...or maybe like the male lead, u choose not to go deep at all...just touch and go...leave traces, never prints...

i teared both times i watched the movie. the part whr the male lead is convincing the bride for the wedding. it's just so true tt people get so scared nowadays and wan ctrl in everything they do.

4) smtg else tt others might not even tink of...but i tink too much for my own sake...
people tend to block memories/emotions tt they find too painful, that they would like to avoid. i have been toying wif the idea of going for a hypnotherapy recently...even b4 the show. i wanna know more about my childhood...cuz i dun rem much...and i find it strange. is it juz a case of fuzzy memory or smtg i am blocking?

i really wanna figure myself out thoroughly before i ruin another person's life.... =(