long time no blog...
well...i hvn't blogged in a long long while..shld write smtg now..
been having too many tots recently...abt many things... abt rs, married life, wat guys tink...etc..and they were mostly sparked by conversations wif frens...
married life: not juz 1 fren told me married life is boring....lack of comm is a norm, whether it's a problem remains a mystery as these frens aren't married long enuff for tt to be a prob yet.... tt got me quite worried... it's not tt i feel married life is a bed of roses...nor do i expect it to be perfect, with no obstacles...but it juz made tink... abt maybe how i will react if i am confronted wif those probs...and whether i wld hv a solution for tt if i was in the situation... those not married will say tt any rs needs maintenance lor...so it depends on the parties involved to work harder, make more effort...but they aren't the ones married leh...maybe effort made, worked hard...and still routine and boring... i guess it wld be the stage to accept tt it's normal..and juz live life like tt lor... else wat to do?
guys: these r weird creatures... heard more than 1 story of guys regretting after initiating discussions of marriage wif gfs of 2-3 yrs...and broke up wif the gfs.... wth! wif reasons sch as 'i have tot abt us and canot see a future wif u' WTH! does tt take 2-3 yrs to realise? wasted the girl's youth lor... and fr my discussions wif a couple of guy frens...my conclusion is....guys dun tink before they hv to make a serious commitment... so they will juz shiok shiok go out, date...hv fun....and when issue of marriage comes...it scares the shit out of them...
rs: fragile..needs lotsa maintenance...no security... :(
me needs a man who can take care of me... tt's smtg i realised too...when a guy fren asked me wat i need...during a discussion of wat i look for or smtg like tt...
the above are bits and pieces of my tots...not very coherent, perhaps cuz of the time this is written...and oso after a glass of margarita...not so nice but bearable...
gg sleep...after feeding my bbs... :) thanks for reading..
been having too many tots recently...abt many things... abt rs, married life, wat guys tink...etc..and they were mostly sparked by conversations wif frens...
married life: not juz 1 fren told me married life is boring....lack of comm is a norm, whether it's a problem remains a mystery as these frens aren't married long enuff for tt to be a prob yet.... tt got me quite worried... it's not tt i feel married life is a bed of roses...nor do i expect it to be perfect, with no obstacles...but it juz made tink... abt maybe how i will react if i am confronted wif those probs...and whether i wld hv a solution for tt if i was in the situation... those not married will say tt any rs needs maintenance lor...so it depends on the parties involved to work harder, make more effort...but they aren't the ones married leh...maybe effort made, worked hard...and still routine and boring... i guess it wld be the stage to accept tt it's normal..and juz live life like tt lor... else wat to do?
guys: these r weird creatures... heard more than 1 story of guys regretting after initiating discussions of marriage wif gfs of 2-3 yrs...and broke up wif the gfs.... wth! wif reasons sch as 'i have tot abt us and canot see a future wif u' WTH! does tt take 2-3 yrs to realise? wasted the girl's youth lor... and fr my discussions wif a couple of guy frens...my conclusion is....guys dun tink before they hv to make a serious commitment... so they will juz shiok shiok go out, date...hv fun....and when issue of marriage comes...it scares the shit out of them...
rs: fragile..needs lotsa maintenance...no security... :(
me needs a man who can take care of me... tt's smtg i realised too...when a guy fren asked me wat i need...during a discussion of wat i look for or smtg like tt...
the above are bits and pieces of my tots...not very coherent, perhaps cuz of the time this is written...and oso after a glass of margarita...not so nice but bearable...
gg sleep...after feeding my bbs... :) thanks for reading..
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