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Monday, June 20, 2005

Recent hoohas in the Media...

The gruesome murder at Kallang river and the nude girl in the blogging space...

gruesome murder...too horrible to tink abt. chopped up into a few pieces...y can't a person be allowed to rest in 1 piece after she died...? The media has not reported on the full story of what happened, mainly cuz the authority are keeping mum. I guess the whole nation will be griped by the court hearings of this case. The story will then unfold... The general outline of the story might be that the suspect and the victim had a close relationship but the victim decided she wanted out when she fell in love with a fellow colleague and she was killed by the suspect in an attempt to keep her by his side. It might have been an accident since the suspect is decribed as a good man in general, helpful, loving father and all. But i find it hard to believe that such a person will actually resort to chopping up a body. Killing someone already takes lotsa guts...I can't imagine how desperate the person was, to think of chopping up the body. I have read that the person probably chopped up the body in the hope of concealing the murder... If he had succeeded...wld he have escaped the punishment from his own conscience...? I wldn't think so. it's juz an unnatural act to kill a fellow human being. Even if he had escaped scot-free, he probably would have lived a life of nightmares and fear...

Another report that has been hogging the space on the local papers...THAT girl who posted her nude photo on her blog...Is she crazy or wat? This is Singapore. Yes, she probably din care that people wld recognise her on the streets, gossip behind her...and stuff... but she has got family, parents and siblings... she did not even care abt their feelings at all. She did not consider the consequences of her actions. At 19, i guessed no one wld tink much abt wat they do. That's understandable. But since she's bolder than most people of her age, she should have been wiser...but she wasn't... That's too bad. She forgot she was staying in Singapore where people are rather conservative in their thinking now. She did mention abt the casinos and strip shows that would come with the IRs, but HEY, they r not here yet... As if now, people still will not be able to accept wat she does. and those people, they are paid to do those things they do, she wasn't and for tt, she has demonstrated once again that she was not so smart...

She's living such a reckless life. Upon reading her blog, she always had some kind of explanations for her actions... her discussions with her mother (who is supposedly ok with her way of life) always ended up with her giving some cock explanations. I reckon her mother isn't ok with her and her way of life. She probably gave up. Strings of so-called relationships with ang moh men at the age of 19. I also got the impression that she was living off these same men...and she claims that she loves engaging in sexual activities and is a bisexual too. Is this the kind of life that youngsters these days are leading? And the kind of life they look forward to in future?

One of the explanations I read and remembered fr her blog is abt y she should be leading the life she has now. She tinks 'Marriage is something as far as a decade away for her and she doesn't click with people her age. She tinks her mother wants her to date those guys at her age, and of marriageable material.' I'm sure parents have our best interests at heart. They have lived longer and gone through more ups and downs, therefore they definitely have some good experiences to offer to us as advice. I am not suggesting that we should listen to everything they say, but take wat they say into consideration before putting our own ideas into actions. And marriage really isn't as far away as she tinks. It's something that is worth preparing for. And her current lifestyle might make it more difficult for her to get used to the monogamous marriage life and miss out on having a fulfilling marriage life. Relationships should see the 2 parties supporting each other thru difficult times, caring for each other, loving each other. From her blog, I'm not sure if her views will converge with the above...

Call me conservative but i am put off by her medical check-ups for HIV every 6-8mths. Although she is being careful and responsible to get such checks, but it seems to me only those in a particular profession needs such frequent checks, isn't it? She is juz 19 years old...is she even matured enuff to handle everything associated with having sexual activities and multiple partners? And i heard that having multiple partners increases the risk of having cervical cancer too...does she know such health risks as well? And thr's the issue of abortion, did she tink abt how she was going to handle if she did get pregnant? I dunno her personally, thus i can't make any judgements about her but reading about her created a rather unpleasant impression of her in my mind...

Reading such reports abt people in Singapore, sometimes i wonder wat the world is becoming... *shake head*

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